Buying sex toys for the first timer or inexperienced is a pretty daunting task, especially if you don’t have anyone offering advice on what to try out first. It’s not like you can casually ring your mom or your sister and say, “Hey, I want to spice up my sex life with a vibrator, got any advice?” If we stick with vibrators, there are plenty of decisions and choices that need to be made when choosing your first one, but put simply you need to consider the following: Size is perhaps the first thing you need to think about because using a dildo is pretty invasive (in a nice way of course!) so you don’t really want to be starting with a huge dildo if you’ve never used one before. You probably ought to go for something small and discreet to start with because that way you will...

Well being a swinger you get the opportunity to do some field research (so to speak) and it amazes me how many guys either worry about, or boast about, their penis size, but does size really matter? I’m happy to answer that but do you want the truth; the whole truth, and nothing but the truth? Ok, you asked for it. Guys often ask me 2 things: 1. Can we feel the difference between a “big” one and a “small” one? You want the truth right? Well, yes, we can feel the difference. 2. Can we feel more with a bigger one? Yes we can. But you guys are so hung up on size you fail to ask the most important question; can we still get pleasure from a smaller one? Yes we can! So does size really matter? Not as much as you guys think it does! The male assumption is that all women want men...

Sexy has almost become extinct for the average working woman. She has become very masculine in her efforts to keep up with self-imposed demand. I’ve been curious about this point for some time and have done much research. What we now know is the importance energy has to play in our daily lives, masculine and feminine energy in particular and how the balance between the two is critical for sustainability and longevity in a relationship – especially the one we have with ourselves. There is also a lot to be said about the consequences of feminism (yes there are consequences) and how we may have swung the pendulum too far in the opposite direction without considering what it would mean to us 30, 40, 50 years in the future. I am not going to bring on a political debate about feminism...

Come on couples, cut them some slack! It is pretty well known that it’s much easier for a couple or women to pick up than it is for the thousands of single guys out there online. The poor buggers are lucky to get a chance to chat to us let-a-lone meet us, and then they have an even slimmer chance to join us in the bedroom. Now why is that? Because us as couples (and single women) have so many to choose from that we can afford to be picky! It’s true! When faced with a handful of messages and winks, it’s easy to look at the photos and then only reply to the “good looking” ones, or the good looking ones that show some sort of intelligence in the text on their profile. I am guilty of doing that but I can be because I have the choice… So what about the single guy?...

In episode 4 of our A Man’s Guide to Women series, we give away the most asked for piece of insider information and that’s how to give women an earth shattering orgasm! For the men who want to be god’s in the bedroom and for the women who want them to be, this is one video you don’t want to miss… It’s not the only way to do it but it is a very good technique that we both enjoy, as so do many other women. Once again done in true Chantelle and Eve style, not only informative but entertaining. After all it is 2 women talking about sex and orgasms ...