This is the first of a new series of videos that I’m doing with the lovely Eve. We will be doing one for women and a few other topics, but in the mean time we’re starting with men. We’re sharing some insider information so that they can be better lovers, not just for themselves, but for their wonderful female partners. Each video gives just a few hints and suggestions, they aren’t an exhaustive list but they’re a start. There will be more to come so watch this space and enjoy a couple of sassy women, sitting down, talking about sex and relationships in an open, honest and candid...

(Published in AO Magazine – Issue 2) With a title like that, where do I even start?! There is so much information that’s not taught and even less information that is considered “acceptable” so be prepared for this article to briefly explore things that you may never have heard of, let-a-lone considered; but at the end of the day, it’s here to broaden your perspective and offer a different point of view. If it happens to make you smile, giggle or blush, that’s a bonus! I’m sitting here in my comfy jammies on a Sunday morning with the best husband in the world beside me, wondering why there are so many couples out there that are just surviving, not thriving. Or single people that are in and out of relationships because they can’t find the right person...

He and his beautiful wife were swingers! If all of his needs were being met, he wouldn’t feel the need for anything else. The fact he had a physical affair with another woman (or more) doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife but that potentially he has a need for variety that’s not being fulfilled. It makes complete sense that if they were swingers this whole situation wouldn’t have happened, now doesn’t it? It’s a “have your cake and eat it too” lifestyle that has provided many couples the variety they need in their sex life to keep their relationship full of love and passion. Seriously, there are only so many positions and toys you can use when it’s just 2 of you before you’ve done everything you can do together… the options become limitless when you add a third,...

> There are a thousand reasons why you could be bored or less than enthusiastic about getting involved in some bedroom antics at the moment, but don’t worry, there are a number of ways to reignite that spark to get things going again, or at the very least to make them more interesting for the both of you! 1. Have new sexy conversations! I come across so many people that have never shared all their fantasies with their partner. Sometimes it is an uncomfortable conversation to have at first because you don’t know how they are going to react, but often people find out that their partner has similar fantasies and it sparks a whole new life in the bedroom. The beauty of it is that you don’t even have to fulfill those fantasies, sometimes just using them as imagery is enough; imagine...

This could mean a few different things but either way it’s a neon sign flashing a message at you to say “you need to change something”! In my first marriage I always said “if either one of us starts to have feelings for someone else, it means there is something wrong here”. Never in a million years did I think it would be me, but in the end, it was. You can get into a rut in your relationship and sometimes you don’t realise it. You start to run on auto-pilot mode; doing the same things, going about your day the same way and basically coexisting together rather than being in a relationship with each other. Relationships are a living entity and require constant nourishment, love and attention, and when that stops happening, the relationship slowly dies. Then along comes...